Between 2014 and 2018, I did a lot of soul-searching. I went through transition, I built a strong social network, I stepped onto the dating scene for the first time, and I explored BDSM at my own pace. I learned a lot about myself, and am still learning more as I keep moving forward.

I created this blog to share my experience with any who might relate. Some people might be going through similar situations I did, and if these words help even one of them find their way, it will have been worth it.

As someone who is sex-repulsed but seeks physical intimacy; who is kinky without being aroused; and who makes little distinction between partners, friends and family: welcome, dear readers, to my life of contradictions.